It starts with you: Hero’s Guide to Winning Back Your Wife

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Welcome to the fourth installment of our special series the Hero’s Guide To Winning Back Your Wife.  Today we talk about one of the best ways you can stop the miserable conflict dance you learned about in episode two and you’re not going to like it.  In fact, this key strategy is one most people resist initially, but if they figure it out, it can turn a relationship around quicker than almost anything else you can do.

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  1. It starts with you
    1. Personal responsibility is at the heart of every healthy relationship
      1. It’s the fuel that drives the engine
    2. Stop focusing on everything else
    3. Look in the mirror, the only thing you can control is your own thoughts, emotions, and actions
  2. When we blame
    1. We become the victim, and victims simply don’t win relationally
    2. It causes defensiveness
    3. Stops the change process
    4. Builds animosity
  3. A hero’s actions
    1. Don’t apologize, but take responsibility
      1. “What I’ve realized is how I hurt you by…”
    2. Do for her what you wish she was doing for you
    3. Never quit

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