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I’ve got a confession to make. For the majority of my marriage I have done something that has actively hurt my relationship. Only in the last few years that I finally realized the damage I was doing and made an important change to stop the hurt. You might want to listen today to see what I did to make my marriage thrive.

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Philippians 4:8

And now, dear brothers and sisters, one final thing. Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise.”

It’s no secret that Amy and I are very different people, the mistake I’d been making for the majority of my marriage was not giving her the benefit of the doubt.  I allowed little things to become big things.

Giving the benefit of the doubt:

  1. Have perspective
  2. Be fair on your evaluation on 1 to 10
  3. Let it go already

If it is something that becomes a regular occurrence, then you can:

  1. LOVE Talk
  2. Forgive
  3. Get help from a third party

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